HOW TO KNOW YOUR PERFECT MATCH

by Lara Kudayisi-Emeralds,



Nobody is perfect but there are people who can actually fit better than some other people.

That relationship where it feels like you have known each other for years even when you haven't really known for too long, that relationship where you have lesser stress and you seem to click better, that's the kind of Match that I am talking about.
So, how do you know your Perfect Match

1) Emotional Connection: Lots of people say Love or Feelings isn't enough to keep a marriage but it's a very good foundation to build on. When you have strong emotional connection with someone, a connection that spans beyond the surface. I am not talking about how beautiful the girl is or how he speaks softly or fluently. I am talking about depth, a soul connection that runs deep in your heart. This is a very necessary need before you choose because when the chips are down, this keeps you going and gives you the strength to fight.

2) Shared Values: Your Values are everything. They are ethics that you live your life by. When you share the same values with someone, that's a cue that they could be your match. There's an unproven statistics that says that 70% of divorce is caused by clash of values. If you are in love with someone and you don't share the same values, you are going to have lots of trouble on your hands
3) SHARED GOALS: When you and someone have the same family or future goals, then you are a great match. You don't have to be in the same career or line of business but when you want the same things and you have the same ideas of family, it's a great raw material. Lots of married people drift apart today because though they are married, they want separate things and future.
4) BELIEF SYSTEM: When both of you believe in the same things, it's a great pointer to the fact that you are a great match. Your belief system is key in getting together with someone. If most of your beliefs are different and alien to each other, it's not a good sign.
4) BELIEF SYSTEM: When both of you believe in the same things, it's a great pointer to the fact that you are a great match. Your belief system is key in getting together with someone. If most of your beliefs are different and alien to each other, it's not a good sign.
5) OPPOSITE PERSONALITY: So many people don't know their temperaments or personalities and so they don't know who to connect with.

If you are introverted, you are either melancholy or phlegmatic and you would be attracted to an extrovert who is either a choleric or a sanguine. According to Tim Lahaye, The phlegmatic and choleric is a good match while the Melancholy and Sanguine is a great match too. However, this doesn't mean that these combinations are cast on stone but they just attract each other because they complement each other well